We had a giant thunder storm late this morning. Linda just got home from her first class, just minutes before it started. Perfect timing because the thunder made me so scared I was shivering! She learned from Cesar not to baby me when I am afraid because that only reinforces the behavior. Instead, she let me sit next to her but not on her lap. Then she ignored me during the worst of it. About 2 minutes into the storm, I laid down and closed my eyes. See! It works. If she would have rocked me and cooed don't be scared words, I probably wouldn't have relaxed because I would think something was really wrong. I love Cesar. Since he is divorcing from his wife, maybe Linda could marry him so he could be my pack leader. (Linda just said NO WAY Jose'!)
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Pack Leader
We had a giant thunder storm late this morning. Linda just got home from her first class, just minutes before it started. Perfect timing because the thunder made me so scared I was shivering! She learned from Cesar not to baby me when I am afraid because that only reinforces the behavior. Instead, she let me sit next to her but not on her lap. Then she ignored me during the worst of it. About 2 minutes into the storm, I laid down and closed my eyes. See! It works. If she would have rocked me and cooed don't be scared words, I probably wouldn't have relaxed because I would think something was really wrong. I love Cesar. Since he is divorcing from his wife, maybe Linda could marry him so he could be my pack leader. (Linda just said NO WAY Jose'!)